T1000
July 15, 2010, 6:49am
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No marriage can survive without compromise. When you live with your other family members like parents , siblings , grandparents etc you compromise and same way you have to compromise in marriage too.
Compromise is about accepting each other faults and supporting each other emotionally & physically both. Compromise is not about putting up with abuse. I would say that one can even put up with abuse (emotional , verbal , physical) to an extent but too much of it can not and should not be accepted as a compromise esp when kids are involved. Because kids sense abuse and it affects their development and can even destroy their whole life.
Women are not the only beings who go to alims for Taweez , men also go yes they are few in numbers as compared to women. Allah has forbidden the use of witch craft . It’s a big big sin. No body should resort to black magic as it can destroy relationships & lives. It’s sick , really sick !
I really like what T1000 has written. If only both husband and wife can think that way , the marriage can become the biggest blessing.
for me, the real charm in a relationship are those compromises. Sometime you do something that you don’t like and sometime you get it in response. its all about acceptance of the disagreements .. just 'caz of the importance of the relationshp