Have you always forgiven people that have wronged you, whether they are friends or close family? Are there certain things you just can NOT forgive ever? Do you think it is wrong if a person who was severely wronged by another chooses not to forgive and forget (please don't bring Islam into this, I know it's wrong according to the religion) I'm just asking on a personal level how YOU feel about it?
sorry u said bring no Islam but i wanna clarify that Islam does give u a right not to forgive or take revenge.
it just say forgiving is afzal.
as for me to very close ppl in my life i am quite forgiving. i forgive them in this world so Allah does not punish them thereafter. this involves my parents, my siblings, my husband and my kids. other than these it depends on type of harm done. if someone continues doing evil n feel no remorse for it i don't forgive easily but if they ever ask for forgiveness i might reconsider.
i mostly forgive ppl 3 times n if they do it again i keep grudges.