Re: How far should you take a relationship?
^True, but what if both parties agree? I mean even in the Pakistani constitution states that Two grown people can agree upon sex and do it anywhere regardless of getting married.
Re: How far should you take a relationship?
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go for it then buddy, just pray not to get aids while having fun.
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go for it then buddy, just pray not to get aids while having fun.
I dont think you get aids by having sex! I think you get it while not having sex. lol hey im just kidding!
If you know you are going to end it with that person, then why are you with them? Just for the sex?
^True, but what if both parties agree? I mean even in the Pakistani constitution states that Two grown people can agree upon sex and do it anywhere regardless of getting married.
Well if that is your thinking that do what pleases you.
Re: How far should you take a relationship?
If you know you will marry that person then just marry them...why wait? Why risk having sex out of wedlock if you already have the partner you want to be with? What is the point in that?
On the other hand, if you know you wont marry that person...then let them go. Who knows what they're thinking and if you hurt them...how Karma might hurt you? There are no bad deeds that go unpunished, we all pay the price sooner or later. So if you're not religious then just think of it this way: if you mess around with someone else's life...its only a matter of time before someone else messes with yours...and it might not be in the romantic sense necessarily.
If both parties are consenting to having sex out of wedlock then why are you here? I dont understand why you need a rocket scientist to crack this one for you but I'll help anyway since you asked. In most cultures (even western) sex outside of wedlock is considered wrong...in some places (Pakistan, India, etc) more then others (USA, UK, etc). However, it is still perceived as wrong...just on a more tolerable level. If you have found someone who is willing to be in a physical relationship with you and neither one cares much for religion...then even though I highly discourage it...who am I or anyone else to stop you? And furthermore, why do you need the approval of GS members to move forward with it?
^ So wtf are you suppose to do until you get married?
You can pray, fast, lower your gaze, distract yourself with more positive activities. C'mon dude....self-mortification of the soul remember? Go back to your own sufiana advice.
Re: How far should you take a relationship?
^ Good lwad…where did you pull that from?
Jaanwar you think celibacy is the solution for him?
^True, but what if both parties agree? I mean even in the Pakistani constitution states that Two grown people can agree upon sex and do it anywhere regardless of getting married.
The "Constitution of Pakistan' have many Flaws .......why we encourage these ones...this is barely conflicting Islamic laws......
However IF you unable to restrict your 'FUNNY BONE' you can get many opportunities if you look for it.
Yes !!! Regardless of getting married ......interesting fact is that if you look for 'your' required sex then ......don't go for marriage.
Re: How far should you take a relationship?
what i would do it. Keep the guy around for internet problems, cause chances are if hes chatting like this on a net-site, hes a bit of a geek and thus adept at techie stuffZ.
Then send him home.
Re: How far should you take a relationship?
100% pakistani girls who do that before marriage, do that beliveing "he is the one!!" (Or thats what the say)
100% of the guys who manage to do that say... yeahhhhh another one!!
^ So wtf are you suppose to do until you get married?
Rosy Palm
Re: How far should you take a relationship?
hahahaha roflamo you guys rule!
How far should you take a relationship? when you know that you are going to end up with that person, should you go fulltime physical or just remain loyal until you part your ways? Meaning that you have someone you love but you know that there are odds and that you wont marry that person?
In a loving relationship physical intimacy is some thing that just happen and usually is not contemplated in advance.
Re: How far should you take a relationship?
^hmmm interesting.
mcpaindo you seem shareef, aap shaadi kero, issi main aapki baliye hai :)
YES SHAREEF VERY SHAREEF INDEED
How far should you take a relationship?
How far? hmmm... how far should you take a relationship?
good question!
I would like to TAKE the realtionship far far far really really far - but I would make sure the realtionship STARTS OUT at my parents front door!
That mean once it's a "kubul hai" :D then take me as far as HE WANTS!