How fair should one expect in laws to be between daughter in laws?

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Re: How fair should one expect in laws to be between daughter in laws?

@redvelvet

You’re not being shallow or hungry. You’re basically allowing shaitan to poison your heart toward in-laws by entertaining these thoughts. The longer you dwell on them…the greater the potential for you to express those thoughts to your husband…and potentially strain your marriage. Such unhealthy and unproductive dwellings happen to all of us…even to the best of us…and it’s better to seek refuge from shaitan and redirect your thoughts and energies.

Have you read some of the scary threads in this forum? If your in-laws respect you, give you privacy in your marriage, do not scheme against you, do not complain about you to your husband, do not try to turn husband against you, do not spread malicious gossip about you, do not steal from you, do not prevent you from speaking to your parents or visiting them, do not disrespect your parents, and do not severely restrict you or impose upon you…Allah ka shukar karo cuz it’s more than enough. And Allah ka shukar karo that He has made you and your parents financially sufficient to where you don’t need to depend upon anyone for monetary help…especially in-laws and this is a huge blessing that keeps a person’s izzat or dignity.

Well said!!!

Do Allah ka Shukr if ur inlaws r nice people. The rest is all material things n not imporatant.