How fair should one expect in laws to be between daughter in laws?

[Deeba1234]

Re: How fair should one expect in laws to be between daughter in laws?

@newbee13

I’m currently in confusion as to if they treat them same.. Or not.. Cause things have been good for me mostly. But I feel that my elder sister in law is given an edge regardless of her bad behaviour.
They are lovely decent people. But it’s still hurting me.

Like before her marriage she was taken to dubai for shopping..
While no one offered me so I have decided to go on my own.
They didn’t even offer me any financial help.. While for her my mil went and made her do all the shopping.
I don’t have to have eyes on anyone’s money.. But shouldn’t I get the same treatment? Or am I being shallow and money hungry?

Maybe they didn’t offer and your sil herself asked (or pushed) to go to Dubai to shop? Or maybe her family footed some of the bill?

If it really bothers you why not just ask?