Re: How exactly should a man be in the relation?
Gosh I think foot massages are heaven, and there's totally nothing wrong with a husband or wife doing that for each other.
Nappy changing bags are fine to be carried if the colour is unisex too, carrying your womans handbag is a no-no, that's just plain gay sorry guys!
Re: How exactly should a man be in the relation?
A manly man is he who can listen to his wife and do whatever she desires and not complain. As long as it's within sharia, the manly man should keep the wife happy!
ha ha I agree with MIZZ and Iam a woman too!
sometimes us women gotta stop all the buk buk and just let the poor man breathe.
that would be really nice...
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Massaging feet= unmanly??? lol....I would find it very manly of my husband to massage my feet, or do the dishes, or cook ...so on and so forth. There is nothing unmasculine about a man who wishes to take care of his wife or who does housework. The same as there is nothing unfeminine about a woman who has a career. Anyhow, I will massage my husbands feet as long as he massages mine :P
Totally depends how pretty her feet are and how much foot fetish u have . Plus I hope she returns the favor once in a while .
And No , massaging feet is not manly , but protecting and providing for her is .
Lol agree!
As for carrying stuff, if I am with a female relative or my mother I usually offer to carry stuff for them whatever they are carrying.
Its common decency imo.
A manly man is he who can listen to his wife and do whatever she desires and not complain. As long as it's within sharia, the manly man should keep the wife happy!
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Re: How exactly should a man be in the relation?
I don't think I want anyone massaging these feet...
Diamond you did pedicures for your husband?? On his request? First of alll, what guy looks for pedicures? Secondly, why subject your wife to do it - I've seen it done once and its pretty labor intensive...
Naturally, it is healthy in some ways for your feet. Certain aspects actually aren't. Like when they snip that piece of skin from the outline of your nail...thats actually a protective barrier they're removing...
But anyway, no person should subject a spouse to pedicures...when you can pay 10 dollars and get it done somewhere. I'd take out 10 dollars from our household budget and hand it to my husband if he ever asked me such a thing.
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^ Yeah I did his pedicures ! I had gone out of my mind and told him that I had done better pedicures for myself than what I got in my bridal services. That was it ! But with my physical condition as my body was growing I couldn’t bend and do it any more not even for myself 
but it was sure hard to explain him that 