Re: how easy it is for someone to befriend you again?
he may or maynot be helpless. or he may or maynot be mean.
he may or maynot be loving, but he may or maynot be able to show that.
he may or maynot move on that easily, he may or maynot know this.
but, why is he quiet?
Re: how easy it is for someone to befriend you again?
there are some people whose ill- will destroys everything . even if you go miles beyond . it does not work .. .. i wish there were no such people in this world . :)
Re: how easy it is for someone to befriend you again?
it was all mis-understanding that was further miscommunicated.
he use to say he does not want a 'bad memory for it all', while trying to be carelessly leaving.
what i do not want is, he does this to anyone else or he remains caged in what others tell him to do.
it will be my luck, if he came back, it will be his, if he did not.
well i think u can never be that close as u were b4 if u had a serious break-up kind of situation...but u can be not enemies or talk like regular frnds not close ones...dats wat i think...actually it also depends on what the conflict was abt how serious it was...how much was it yrs fault...who made up and how...more than that if they realise what they did was wrong.......lots of factors i must say...i have experienced this...if u break up with a frnd than befrnd with them again they take u for granted...not only that but also they make it a habbit and than ofcourse they r no more reliable 2 u and u r better off with them......
Re: how easy it is for someone to befriend you again?
that much i am aware of and that is why i am contacting him any longer.
if he intends to be hat he claimed he is, and he feels comfortable in my sincere tries until two days ago - and he realizes that he could happily be back with me, he will come out of his own accord.
Allah is watching over us all.
i ook no further. i do not wish him bad at all.
hurt will remain, time wont heal, i know so.
it is sadly a necessity of 'life'
to put on this face of boldness that most people are suggesting me to put on.
i can't.
but, what i plan to do and will do, is let him be.
forgiveness is out of questons
forgetting is to me, a betrayal of all that he shared with me, so i wont do that either.