How easily do you forgive, just say, if your spouse breaks your trust, though later they do realize their mistake & willing to rectify it? Do you easily forgive them & start trusting again? Or would you require your own space & time to think things through?
Re: How easily do you forgive?
very easily BUT do NOT forget…and. this is for me to be careful with that person in future. i try to steer clear of such people…there is peace in this approach to “forgive but NOT forget!” ![]()
Re: How easily do you forgive?
So, that means you do not trust them again?
Re: How easily do you forgive?
I would always give them a second chance and I forgive almost everyone easily or at least let go of things. However I would also give myself time till I start trusting them again. I wouldn’t force the trust phase on myself so that I don’t end up getting hurt the next time - and I become slightly more careful.
Re: How easily do you forgive?
EXACTLY…there is a famous phrase in Farsi…“aazmooda raa aazmoodan jehl ast” [aazmaaye huye ko aazmaanaa jihaalat hai" [testing the tested ones is follishness]…agree?
I can forgive but I become cautious - but only on rare occasions. Mostly I forget - and am like yeah whatever.