Does one have to go to the Middle East, Pakistan or India for relatively better chance of success ?
I understand that nobody can truly vouch for somebody being virtuous, except that person themself and God,
but one can make educated guesses by observing their lifestyle, value system and family environment.
And of course, it is a given that the man looking for a virtuous woman better be virtuous himself.
I feel that the permissive atmosphere and the extreme and arrogant emphasis on personal/individual freedom in the West make such a quest rather difficult there.
I feel that children’s innocence is snatched away early in life in the Western world through the popular culture.
[Mods, please leave this thread in All Views.
I don’t want it moved to Life and Relationship forum.]
Re: How does one go about finding virtuous women for marriage in the West ?
agree with what you say. theyre so few women and men who are virtuous and have not committed zina. however, there are people out there still. in the west too. look at masjids and ask around. :)
the only way that children can learn and abstain from such relations is to be educated in their religion. parents have to drill it into their kids that dating/any pre marital romantic relationship is not liked by Allah tallah.
even when i think about searching for a partner who has had no past relationships, it is almost impossible. i see all the pakistani muslim guys around me and ALMOST ALL of them are involved with girls.