How does one diplomatically say no to a proposal? (Posting on behalf of a friend)

[mahool]

Re: How does one diplomatically say no to a proposal? (Posting on behalf of a friend)

@Mezhgan

Thanks for the replies everyone! I’d like to add something:

His issue is not in saying no as, from my understanding, if he says no, it means no and his family will not try to pressure him otherwise. What he is unsure of is what to say or how to tactfully explain his reason for saying no if he is asked why he rejected the proposal.

In other words: If one must, how does one tactfully explain that one isn’t attracted to the person?

He only need to say no to his family… rest will ve taken care by his family…

Example: Abhi kuch click nahi ho para raha hia…
Mera interest nahi develop horaha hia.
etc etc…

[ekumunng]

Re: How does one diplomatically say no to a proposal? (Posting on behalf of a friend)

Just tell her that he does not see future with her. Girls are way more clever, she’ll pick up what he means!

[KKF]

Re: How does one diplomatically say no to a proposal? (Posting on behalf of a friend)

@ekumunng

Just tell her that he does not see future with her. Girls are way more clever, she’ll pick up what he means!

very true…boys are so dumb, they don’t take the hint:

boy: do you like me? would you marry me? haN haN?
**girl: **yeah, i might if you are the last man left on this planet earth!
boy: yahooooo!!! thank you, thank you, thank you…you finally said YES!

[Iconoclast]

Re: How does one diplomatically say no to a proposal? (Posting on behalf of a friend)

Tell her istikhara sahi nahin aaya

[gudiaali]

Re: How does one diplomatically say no to a proposal? (Posting on behalf of a friend)

he could simply say " Bus Dil nahi maan raha" or " i have an eerie feeling that this marriage would not be good for either of us"