Re: how does a husband defend.his wife
I’m currently not well due to pregnancy (nausea and vomiting all the time) and my MIL doesn’t care. My husband has a cough… a COUGH… no fever, no flu, he’s just coughing loads. And she rings me up to say make fish ka salan, dalchani wala kaava, etc etc for him, when I can barely stand these days and HE is looking after ME. Even he tells his mum that he’s fine and just taking cough sweets lol, but she makes a big drama out of it and yet chooses to completely ignore how I’m feeling. It doesn’t bother me, because at the end of the day she is my SAAS and that’s what I expect from her.
Your husband is there for you and taking care of you - that’s all that matters. You have to accept that your MIL will never be your mother. The important relationship is your husband - if he’s there for you and looking after you, then don’t bother about anything else. Let HIM deal with his mother, and don’t let it phase you. Learn to IGNORE her. It’s easier said than done, I know… but try.