how does a husband defend.his wife

[mzprincess88]

Re: how does a husband defend.his wife

@nadz123

Scenario

Mother of husband asks him.whether u ( wife) is khafa from them .

Wife is Ill has had a high temp and has lost rr voice last 3 days. And yet the mother in law has not once asked. And probably doesn’t care and yet has this complaint from daughter in law.

Husband asked wife of she doesn’t mind chatting to.his.mother once she feels.better to clear the air.

Why? And why couldn’t husband ask his mother the obvious question " u havent asked.her how she is once so how would u know she is Ill or khafa
And its obvious wife is Ill

He said she is.not khafa she is unwell. Although yes wife is peed off no one bothered yo ask.even.father in kae asks only when mother in law out of earshot.

Disclaimer
Yes the wife is me

Is this really such a big deal? I think you need to stop making an issue of something so minor. So what if your husband asked you to talk to your MIL to clear the air? Can’t you do it just to make him happy instead of ranting about the fact that he should have gone off at his own mother for not seeing how you are? You know that you are not your MIL’s favourite person so why add fuel to the fire? Why not just do what your husband asks to keep the peace? The last thing a man wants to hear when he has been working all day is his wife whinging and complaining over petty issues. You need to understand that she is his mother and no matter what he will NOT be at war with her for you, unless she is blatantly wrong/abusive which it doesn’t seem she is. If you don’t realize this, pretty soon your husband will begin to resent your behaviour.