How do you tell someone

Lifestyle Relationships
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at the end of the day you can only take a horse to water....you can't make him drink.

she's gonna have to do something on her own.
unfortunately, I don't think that she is capable of it......which means misery for them both.

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I guess you could be there for her, kinda like a support system. Help her find a job, suggest activities, maybe take her somewhere?

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just tell her to have a fling.. i mean if she is not listening to what u have said, tell her the exact opposite and see how she reacts..

sadly some ppl are sympathy hogs, yt they wont do anything, they will talk about their misery and all over and over but not take any action.. its like, live with it, or make some decision..do something..anything but being static and just stuck complaining is not doing anything.

anyways I am out of my quota for logical advise for the day, so I prescribe a fling for her.

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Abay koi aisay hi thori fling karta hay

first you go out of the house, interact with ppl, meet someone, have fling

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LB

rite, i would not know about flings protocol etc

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LB,
I think you've been told.
What are you gonna do about it?

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Sometimes it's just better to leave someone on their own. Things make more sense to you when you experience them. Words don't leave that much of an impact on you until you actually go through that 'phase'. If you have already done your share of counselling and advising, then I reckon that you leave him/her alone to sort out this mess. :)

Just my 2 cents.

I'm not even sure if I make any sense.. smack

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Muz i took that as a compliment...

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LOL......why did I figure you would?

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If I consider someone as a friend, I will tell them exactly what I think, if infact they have asked me to tell them what I think. Even if they wont like to hear it. Afterall, they are asking my opinion.

One of my friends has serious relationship issues and she constantly asks me for advice on it. I have been telling her how I see it and often times she will agree with me, and say she should not be in the relationship but when it comes to acting on it, she never does. She ignores my advice and wants to stay in the relationship. Therefore, telling her how I honestly felt did not hurt our relationship. I've told her, and now I refuse to go on about it because she simply never takes my advice, even after admitting its reasonable advice. She also admitted that she rarely takes my advice, so she doesnt complain now that I dont go into details on the topic now.

I simply allow her to vent now, make a comment or two and then change the topic. Works fine for the both of us.