http://www.paklinks.com/gs/life-relationships/357516-how-would-you-react-ladies.html
That thread above got me thinking. Some men are rather retarded and can’t tell when a woman is sending signals she likes him. Some men use it to their advantage. But the question for those who can’t figure it out - what are these signals exactly?
How does a guy tell if his female friend is actually in to him?
You women complain that we don’t get you. Consider this thread a public service annoucement for men.
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Re: How do you tell she likes you?
She is not throwing chappal at you?
Hmmmm.....signs can include:
1) Behavior that stands out. For example, she's comfortable around other guys......but becomes strangely shy and quiet around you. It's possible that when you're around......she might act loud/laugh loud to attract your attention.
2) Close proximity......touching your shoulder/arm during conversation. Other body language indications can include lingering eye contact.....fidgeting if she's nervous.......preening/grooming gestures such as flipping/touching hair. Does she laugh at your corny jokes?
3) During conversation......does she display an interest in you? Does she ask you questions about you? Does she remember details about you and repeat/bring them up at a later time??.....because that could be her way of hinting to you that she remembered. Is she making the effort to carry the conversation further........or does she usually cut the conversation short and make excuses to get away from you?
4) Does she make the time to see you? When you ask her out....does she meet up with you? When you call......does she call back? Is she reciprocating? Or do you feel it's one-sided?
************ Body language can speak volumes considering that majority of our messages/communication is based on nonverbal gestures and cues. HOWEVER........trying to determine whether someone is romantically interested in you based solely on body language/signs can get tricky. Why?
Because a girl who avoids eyecontact can do so either because she's not interested OR because she's shy AND interested. A girl can simply be an extrovert and a good conversationalist........and this can be mistaken for "flirtatious" behavior.
If girls were to ask the men to tell them of "signs" that men give when they're interested.......... I think the SAME problem would be encountered: body language and "signs" can BLUR......one particular sign can either mean interest OR lack of interest.
********** Plus......you can't rely on just one "sign"........the "signs" would have to be dispalyed consistently in order to for the possibility of romantic interest to be mutual. In other words, you can't assume that a person likes you just because you caught him/her staring at you ONE TIME. And of course.........feelings are subject to change in both genders.
Re: How do you tell she likes you?
^ Other things to take into consideration:
Culture/Upbrining/Individual personality.............Some people are naturally more flirtatious than others. Also, a conservative upbringing can play a role.
Playing Hard to Get: **Sometimes "avoidance" can be a sign of **disinterest and other times it can be a means of getting your crush's attention. If the person is consistently avoiding you.......then it could be disinterest OR perhaps you've done something to offend him/her. However......if one is blowing cold AND hot......then it might be a way of getting attention.
**Societal Expectations: **Even in the year 2009.....society in general and many people/relationship experts believe that the guy should always make the first move. For women who believe this................they may not verbally express their interst......no matter how convenient and easier that would make things. Rather......the guy would be expected to verbally express his feelings first....at the risk of rejection of course. So............in a way it might be easier for girls in the sense that they might think that the biggest and most clear sign of a guy's interest is if he says he likes you. And if that doesn't happen......it can be assumed that there is no interest irrespective of other "signs". Whereas for a guy........he may not get as a CLEAR of an indication of a girl's feelings......until after he expresses how he feels.
Re: How do you tell she likes you?
You know I like you, if I'm asking you to describe your mom.
Re: How do you tell she likes you?
if she touched you in the crotch she likes you
Re: How do you tell she likes you?
yes, remember she must touch you while sitting on a couch, a bench or chair and it just aint the same.
Re: How do you tell she likes you?
lol edited.
Re: How do you tell she likes you?
uh
I think it needs more editing.
Re: How do you tell she likes you?
well thats what my friend told me one day. is it not true?
if she touched you in the crotch she likes you
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Re: How do you tell she likes you?
jab vo bahaane bahaane se personal info le :)
if she touched you in the crotch she likes you
lolz
true in some cases.
touch shmuch............if she kicks you in the crotch.........she LOVES you!
But she doesn’t want babies with you 
Re: How do you tell she likes you?
CM to your question:
When she remembers each and everything you have ever mentioned to her, generally, be it ur birthday, ur friends u ever spoke to her abt, ur personal stuff like ur liking n disliking or your childhood stories etc.
When she gives importance to everything thats related to you i.e. your family, job, studies, business anything.
When every that person is important for her who is important for you. She avoids all those whom you do not wish to talk to or is not in ur good books.
When she forgives you a lot, when she takes ur every kind of mood i.e. good n bad n even very bad one, when she listens to you, n show interest in ur talks even when u r not discussing her fav subject.
When she doesnt call you names but respect you.
When she cares about your health.
When you see her worried when you are worried.
When she prays for you everyday.
Now if this above gal some day confesses that She loves you. Rest assure that no one else in world loves you more than her. Accept her proposal without giving it 2nd thoughts.
Rest RV has covered quite much of it.
Re: How do you tell she likes you?
Why do my threads always degenerate into random stupidity? Not that I mind, i find them entertaining, but i just want to know why? :D
Re: How do you tell she likes you?
CM whom are u calling Stupid ? :ASA:
Re: How do you tell she likes you?
points at Slickstar Him....