Re: How do you say yes?
like I always say in every thread that relates to this topic…
marriage is a gamble…whether it’s an arranged marriage or a love marriage. In either case you dont really know a person til you are married to them. Scary but true. 
Just take a look at most relationships here in the west..they date for yrs, live together and what not…they get married and STILL majority of those relationships end up in divorce. So you tell me…what good did falling in love before marriage do for them?
With an arranged marriage you dont get to know the person you are marrying. You dont have the opportunity to develop feelings for them therefore making the entire “getting to know each other” process AFTER marriage really akward not to mention stressful if you arent seeing eye to eye.
so either way…there is a possibility that you’re screwed :biggthumb
because marriage is a gamble no matter which way you approach it…I think one should be open to the possibility of getting married either way.