Re: How do you move on
Thanks not having time does not really make that much of a difference but guess having time and nothing to do is worse. Guess just need to grow up and move on.
Re: How do you move on
inshaAllah you will be ok, just a matter of time. 
Re: How do you move on
You may want to check out the link moveon.org
Re: How do you move on
The only thing that’s actually effective is time. Depending on how deeply invested you were in the relation, the longer it will take to move on and forget. I’ve tried the different activities, prayer, charities(unfortunately, my eyes went right to the charity that he would’ve valued so:smack:), changing what I do day to day, putting all my effort into helping others, making new friends, they do help to change the focus from what happened to other activities but I found that when I was alone for those few minutes before going to sleep or at night when my thoughts wander, my heart somehow always goes to what I want to forget the most, him. So, you’ll just have to plan ahead a couple months, hopefully not years, of slowly but surely, eventually forgetting the person.
Unfortunately, time is the only thing that heals us, that are very emotionally invested, and blocking out the person from your life(online accounts-Facebook, myspace, instagram…in real life, whatever connection you have with that person should be blocked out. It’s very effective because they’ve already taken a pass at any future with you).
Re: How do you move on
Most of us…even the best among us…have been through this stupidity. The people who have given you advice (myself included) in your thread are not above such vulnerabilities, frailties, mistakes. The questions I posed to you in my post were the ones I have asked myself several times in similar situations. I know I certainly didn’t learn all my life lessons the first time. That said, don’t be so hard on yourself. The good thing is that you’ve realized there’s a problem and that it’s hurting you and that’s a start; it’s the first step.