How do you move on

[Bobby1]

Re: How do you move on

@Illuminate

I think what he meant was in the early stages when it hurts and when it’s virtually impossible to think about something else you should block the memories. Later, when time heals all the wounds then you can come back and re-visit the memories and learn from the experience. I think its impossible to block memories from your life regardless of how good or bad they were. They will always be a part of you. With time sometimes they become unclear or not as strong because we start moving on in our lives and start making new ones.

True, if the memories are making you dysfunctional then yes but how do you have memories about someone who wasn’t even a part of your life, I see that a lot in desis and boggles my mind.