Re: How do you know
If you’re unhappy in your marriage (for whatever reason) and need to make certain changes to make yourself happy, you have let your spouse know what you need in order to be happy, your spouse and you have tried everything possible to make the changes OR your spouse refuses to change…AND
The idea of living the way you’re currently living for the next 40 years of your life makes you sick to your stomach.
That’s when you move on. A relationship can have love/respect/compromises etc. OR not have it…but at the end of the day, if you’re not happy, if you don’t enjoy being at home with your spouse, if you feel more at peace when you’re alone versus when you’re spending time with him…then it’s not worth staying in it.