How do you know if someone is being genuine

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Re: How do you know if someone is being genuine

@decentGuy

This is a great question often asked here. There is no definite answer. Socio-economic status is easy to determine but personality is not. The problem is that street-smart people recognize not-so street-smart people easily but its not true the other way around.

First and foremost give yourself enough time and don’t rush decision. Everyone has shortcomings, be sure you know all the major ones and are ok with them before you marry. I made the biggest mistake of my life because I rushed decision. Liars and deceivers always create this aura of urgency around them because time is the biggest enemy of their fake personas. One thing that I’ve found a good predictor is the ease in communication. If you find yourself constantly walking on eggshells around the other person, it’s not a good match.

So then the question is how do you become street smart?