Re: How do you know if she/he is the one?
The bolded bit above is good enough, no? I think that when you live under the same roof and ride life’s ups and downs together, that adds a depth and richness to the relationship that you won’t get from all the prior interactions/exchanges. If you’re both attracted to each other…if the foundations of mutual respect and trust are there…if you both have similar values and life goals…if your temperaments are compatible…if in your heart you feel happy and completely at ease…then go for it, Pisi. You can also do istikhara if you want. If it’s meant to be, things will only get easier.