How do you know if she/he is the one?

Yep! Pretty simple! How would you know if he or she is the one? Even if everything checks out and you get along well and talk endlessly, how would you know if she is the one? I don’t think I have been in ‘real’ love, so was wondering if any of yall know?

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The bolded bit above is good enough, no? I think that when you live under the same roof and ride life’s ups and downs together, that adds a depth and richness to the relationship that you won’t get from all the prior interactions/exchanges. If you’re both attracted to each other…if the foundations of mutual respect and trust are there…if you both have similar values and life goals…if your temperaments are compatible…if in your heart you feel happy and completely at ease…then go for it, Pisi. You can also do istikhara if you want. If it’s meant to be, things will only get easier.

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Marry her already. I approve so that is enough assurance. :snooty:

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There’s no way to ever know, i don’t think “the one” even exists.

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^ yes ‘the one’ is a romanticized myth.

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There is no such thing as the one

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You may end up with more than “one” spouse. I do believe that it’s predestined, so with that said…if you don’t wanna think of it as there being “the one”…then you can think that there is someone already specified or destined if it’s written in your naseeb.

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I hope you arent over hyping love in your head.