Re: How do you know if he’s the one?
You don’t. You make a decision based on the facts you have. There is no such thing as “the one”. There is compatibility and attraction which with hard work and compromise on both sides builds into love and loyalty.
Best questions to ask during rishta process are things like:
What do you think makes a marriage work?
What are your thoughts on children?
How would you feel about your wife working?
What are you not willing to compromise on?
What are you looking for in a partner?
What qualities are most attractive to you?
Questions that give you an idea on how the guy thinks and his mental compatibility.
Of course before you do this you should sit down and answer the questions yourself too. You should know exactly what you want in a life partner and what character qualities are mist important to you.
After all that inshallah leave it with Allah.
Its a gamble whether its arranged or not. You never truly know someone until you’ve lived with them and been through good and bad experiences with them.