How do you ignore......?

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Re: How do you ignore…?

@D1DatSmiles

How do you guys ignore bllsht? I hear bllsht everyday from my in-laws. they nag at me, call me names directly and indirectly.** They are very uneducated**. The other day we went to a dawat and FIL was sitting on the ground in a shalwar kameez, with his kameez half up, with his legs up on the coffee table and bashing Zardari by using galiyan. We were at someones house, for God’s sake and not even that close to the family! He was the only one sitting/talking like that! MIL was equally embarrassing on the ladies side, telling the this other lady in the house how their kameez is see-thru tight and why did they get a tight kameez and it doesn’t look good on them…we had met this lady for the first time! Like Seriously?!
They are evil to me at home, embarrass me outside and in front of others, say stuff that is so illiterate, make uneducated remarks…and I have really low tolerance for stupidity and ignorance! I feel like pulling my hair out when they do these kind of things, and that^ was just one LITTLE example, they embarrass me way more!
HOW should I ignore all this or get over all the evil-ness and embarrassing situations they cause?!

and when I tell people that is not only guy/girl you have to see before marriage but also Khandan if you can adjust or not tu I get a reply

“o bhai hameen zindagi tu Laerkay/Lerki k k saath guzarni hai, khandan k saath nani”

unfortunately, you are in a situation where it will be really hard to do something. Fact that your in-laws are not educated will make it harder. I am sure they do not see anything wrong in it. Can your hubby talk to his folks on this?