how do you handle arguments with your spouse?

what is the best way to quickly get over an arguement with your spouse? What’s the proper way to handle it? without resorting to yelling?

Re: how do you handle arguments with your spouse?

Ignore them. Next time they week think about it before starting again.

Re: how do you handle arguments with your spouse?

yea, i guess best thing is to not have one in the first place....need two to argue

Re: how do you handle arguments with your spouse?

I adopted the XYZ method

When you do X it makes me feel like Y next time can you please do Z.

Then kiss and makeup.

Works a treat!

Re: how do you handle arguments with your spouse?

Break the crockery in the kitchen.

Let the crockery make some noise rather than you. ;)

Re: how do you handle arguments with your spouse?

Its pretty simple........ shut up early on

Re: how do you handle arguments with your spouse?

Take a break from each other. Cool down, think it over, forgive some, apologize a little, and move on.