Hello all,
I know this is a very strange topic but its getting very frustrated… I got engaged 3 months ago and insahllah in summer i will be getting married. It was a pure arrange marriage and i only saw the guy two times before my engagement day…
Now that i am engaged, i go shopping every week and getting houseware stuffs, like dinner set, kitchen assoceries and electronic items, and other personal stuffs… I am asked to pick the best brand regardless of how expensive something is… My parents have already spent over 20 k on clothing, gold jewlery and stuffs that i want…
But the issue is everytime i discuss the wedding date, my mom have hard time digesting me talking about my wedding hall preparation… i dont see any problem in that but nooo she gets uncomfortable… today i told her about naushaba (makeup artist in NJ) that i want my makeup done from her… She was upset again…
I dont know why… everytime i show my excitement by saying.. ohh i want my wedding to be like this… or i want a wedding dress like that… she is upset… she is like larkian apni shadi ki batain aisay nahi karti… they loose noor from their face :S
I think my mom is nervous.. she wants me to be happy but not really happy about my engagement cuz these engagement break easily… and she has seen girls in our neighbor picking out the best hall for wedding, and talk about what they want n all… and they ended up getting divorce few months after their marriage…but how should i tell that what happen to them doesnt mean it will happen to me 
khuda na khausta
how to deal in such situation where parents are letting you pick the hall you want, or go for any makeup artist…and get anything i want for wedding but i am not allow to talk about it infront of them… its getting annoying cuz i have arguments with my mom everyday… Why cant i talk.. if i cant talk to her who else can i do it… I do call my dad and tell him what i found today and he repond nicely to me ke watever u want you will get it.. but i feel that he wants to avoid disuccussion with me about my wedding…
does it happen to anyone???what do i do…??? i dont have any sister and my brothers are also scared whenever i get too excited :S…
