We all have flaws, no one is perfect. We just have to learn to live with what we have and be happy for what we do have. There are people out there that have bigger handicaps than us, yet we complain more about how our nose is too big or how our lips are too small…
but still…when we actually have to show our bravery by not getting sad on what we dont have…(accept it or not…we all are like this:rolleyes: )…all the reasons go straight into ditch and we shut ourselves in a room or get lost in out own fantasy thoughts…
i know there ar e few people(like nia_khan) who can afford to be brave enough but i bet nia ke sat bi yeh kabhi kabhi hota ho ga…
so how do you guys deal with your imperfections
what reasons do you give to yourself to get back to your normal routine…
well there's always better things tat come our way and then we forget our miseries and wat we dun have and be happy with wat we hav rite now. doesnt mean we completely forget, but for da time being wateva consolations we can use, we use :D
and da cycle goes onnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn
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You dun really put it as feeling bad about your imperfections-- and unless we talk of physical ones, everyone at some level thinks of improving on other personality/ability related "imperfections." This kind can be more devastating then the physical ones. I guess rather than thinking abt how to deal with it, one should just appreciate it if others have what you dun have, cos some have it, some don't. And "it" could either be yours or someone else's. It's what makes us who we are. And what's the definition of perfection neway? There's no limit to it, no outline. So it's best to be content with what we have and take it from there.
Look at it this way- If i won't fight for myself no one else will :~). I am sure if it was up to me i would have made myself better looking then Sushmita Sen. But I don't think i have any right to say anything about Allah's creation. As i always say behind this skin we are the same.
Barbie - you are right many moons ago i use to think i wasn't pretty. But then you see yourself in a mirror and you realize hey you are pretty its all in our head. Believe me i got freakin bunion feet, many say it looks horrible and crooked feet but hey i say "my feet are SEXY". I don't give a crap what other have to say because i dont care. :~)
Once you develp an attitude that you don't give a crap leave them. Yeah it matters to me what my mother say or those i love I am talking about personality here]. I do try to correct myself as time goes by. Even just looking at my old post sometimes i want to bang my head on the computer i can't believe i posted that. I am a strong believer in our faith and ofcourse i think your immaterial being matters more than your physical being. I try to nurish that more.
Yeah i admit i have a very rigid personality I don't let things get to me. Sometimes people try to black mail you emotionally they all get freaked out when they realize i simply don't care. I am not sure if its a good thing but yeah it definately made me strong.
sometimes i am even afraid from myself :~)
logo ka kaam hai batein karna let them talk you keep on doing what you have to do. while they are busy yapping and bashing your beauty you can sit back and think 'hey i will wave you when you are being questioned by Allah"
~~ man i had so much of a serious talk in this thread here.. let me jet from here now *grin
last thing - you know you can come and talk to me anytime :~)
No one is perfect and sometimes it's okay and perhaps normal even, to have negative thoughts about ur image and looks...i used to worry a lot about that stuff when i was younger...but i think as i've grown up i've learnt to accept and like the way i look...and i remind myself that everyone has their own imperfections and problems...either u can stop complaining and improve them (if possible), or be grateful for wot u have, n just look at those who have less than u.
