How do you deal with this then?*kanjoosi*

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Re: How do you deal with this then?kanjoosi

@Decent_6Chora

No matter how many years pass by, I dont think any one can develop same feelings for spouse’s siblings/niece etc just as he/she has for his/her siblings but most of the time spouse do come to terms and to make relationship healthy they start balancing more appropriately. Feelings can not be induced.

its not about developing feelings, its about balancing and doing whats right, i dont care much for his sister or brother however i wouldnt dream of not giving them decent gifts just because of this…his own brother passed his degree, so my husband told me and said ring them to congrat him, so i did, as i woudlve had he not even said it, however, my own brother passed his alevels and he didnt say congrtats to him, not to his face anyway, stuff like this, that he thinks is minor, is major for me,