How do you deal with people that are by nature condescending and insulting?

[Reha]

Re: How do you deal with people that are by nature condescending and insulting?

@Orpheus

reha, are you ok?

Yeah, Im ok orphy. I am having a small problem dealing with someone I know who has bad manners. They just do not know how to speak without offending people. Usually, I ignore and ignore and ignore…but sometimes I lose my cool too.

@Shak09

Ok fine then. :hinna:

Tum bhi basss…

@Guac

act the same way

Acting the same way means a fight or stooping to their level of communcation which I am not okay with.

@CherryBlossom

here’s the golden rule - never play by their rules. either you ignore them or you give them a perfectly reasonable and polite response.

This seems like a good option…I ignore already as much as possible. I have to work on those diplomatic and polite responses that will shut people up.

@Leopraecordia

I’d suggest you end your contact with that person. If that’s not possible, understand that you have rights as a Muslim woman and use that as your support.

Of course I have rights as a Muslim woman but the situation has nothing to do with a man. More to do with a female acquaintance.