don’t want to obey him due to any reason or you are hurt on some thing and want to make him realize.
Re: How do you convince your hubby when you
Talk to him about it? How else would he know anyway? From what I have heard, men are oblivious to our attitude of "I am not talking to you bc I am mad" they just take it as " Oh she is proly going through some girl stuff" so I would flat out talk to him about it.
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Oh girl… do u hv any idea what did u just say 
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You try to you know and then see what and then go from there.
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It really irks me when women use the word "obey" when referring to their husband.
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^ agree with tere bina
If i am angree with my hubby… i start reacting with one or 2 words… and mostly my eyes spit fire.. or i dont look at him 
He mostly knows when i am annoyed or angree so he makes me laugh and talk with him…
And if he pisses me off reallllllyyy badly… i dont serve him his coffee or chaye 
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Talk to your husband. Stewing silently in your own anger and frustration doesn't help anyone. Communication is important.
While some husbands are intuitive enough to sense when their wives are angry, its silly to expect that from all men.
Calm yourself down and set up a time to have a conversation with him. Tell him your reasons for why you don't want to do what he's asking, but NEVER use name-calling. For example, saying something like "what you're saying is stupid" doesn't really explain anything. Instead of using degrading words, give your side of it in a civilized way, for example, "I don't think its a good idea for me to do this because...."
If you're hurt about something, use the same method.... "I feel hurt that you...."
Also, its good to get a different perspective. Ask him, "Am I wrong to be feeling this way? What do you think? How would you have felt if I'd done/said something similar?"
There's a difference between having a conversation in a calm and neutral environment, and talking with an 'attack-mode' where you're being aggressive or even passive-aggressive.
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"Obey" ?? ???
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Here lassie go fetch the stick.....good girl lassie
Lie down lassie...good girl lassie
Sit lassie....good girl lassie
Drop it lassie...good girl lassie
Here girl! jump lassie...good girl lassie
What are you saying this is not the pet thread? Nevermind, I'll copy paste it there.
Re: How do you convince your hubby when you
LOL. When I dont want to obey him, I simply obey him that makes him feel suspicious about me and he changes his decision
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awwWW hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha 
Didi believe me aap bohot shararti hein
lollllllllllllllll
Keep it up 
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haan na, when he says, shall I wear blue shirt or a black one… and I say opposite to what I want him to wear and he eventually wears what I want him to wear
Ladies, not sure if the silent treatment works in your home it does not in mine. Not talking for a little while is okay because of being upset and not ready to talk about it or ready to let it go. But if its going to be more than that, I just go about my business. Yeah it irks begum but I really am not into this stuff, may try talking once or twice but if no response then I am living life as normal and she can let it go or talk about it. No longer my to-do.
It's not just with her, I have the same approach with people in general.
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Obey?
Makes me think of obedience school for puppies.
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C´mon guys what is so wired in ´´obey´´ lol
By obey I mean if u dont want to go his way.
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you chose the right word. :k:
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Sounds legit & meant!!
