I am not very social with the opposite sex and i’m attaching myself to the only guy that gives me some attention and wants to hang out with me. I know he’s bad for me and if I mention some of the things he says to me most people would be like why is she hanging on to this man when she knows she deserves better.
He hangs out with me and talks to me only when he’s bored. He knows that i am not at my best right now but he’s still taking advantage of me by asking for favors and even says that we have no future together since he is a few years younger than me even if he knows i have strong feelings for him. There is a certain charm to him that’s hard to describe but I just feel a certain attraction to him and his carefree, live life to the fullest, enjoy our youth way of thinking but either it’s that or I haven’t found anybody better and/or out of loneliness since family is far away and since i’m young I feel like i want to enjoy life.
Most women I know are married and busy so on weekends they’re with their husbands and don’t want to burden them by being the third wheel. Since I know he’s bad for me I want to be able to block his phone number so he’ll get the message because as much as I try to end the relation or interaction with him he keeps texting and calling me. The imessage icon can’t be deleted and no i’m not going to do something extreme like call the police because I feel like that’s not how we should solve problems like this in our life.
So in a way you do know that he is not right for you. And what you feeling..might be infactuation. Khair..google it and then hopefully insha'Allah you are able to stop this madness.
^naah tried telling him I feel something for him, he's just taking advantage of that. It's purely out of loneliness and low self esteem that I feel anything for him. It is like Sara says, a battle within myself to stay strong and not seek out someone just because I think I won't meet anybody better.
I don't want to give up my cellphone and my cellphone service provider charges to block particular phone numbers every month and I googled that imessage app can't be deleted, ive tried, I wish i could, was hoping that someone might know another way.
boredom leads u to do some funny things... be very careful! U need pure willpower in this situo, just take a step back and ignore completely, he will get the msg, do not lower urself for someone who will never appreciate u and uses as backup entertainment. Have some self respect and walk away, u deserve better.
By any chance is this the same guy you wrote about before…the one who talks to you about his crazy sex life?
When he calls you or texts you…why can’t you ignore it? Its a very simple solution. Do not answer his calls, do not return his calls, and don’t respond to his text messages. You don’t need to block someone’s number to give them the message that you don’t want to communicate with them.
If you don’t have friends to hang out with on the weekends then start volunterring somewhere. Start a new hobby. Get a job. Take classes related to something you’re intereted in. Not having friends to hang out with is not an excuse to waste your time on someone you already know is not good for you.
^I have a job and I love it and I do have friends but all of them are married people with a kid so they got busy lives. Princess87 is right in every way....I was just hoping blocking the number would help me along.
^I have a job and I love it and I do have friends but all of them are married people with a kid so they got busy lives. Princess87 is right in every way....I was just hoping blocking the number would help me along.
Princess87 is very right in saying that boredom leads you to do...funny...things. My point is that you need to keep yourself busy. Clearly 1 job isn't occupying enough of your time. And I never said you don't have friends....I said you don't have friends who you can hang out with on the weekends which is exactly what you stated.
none of the things I say to him get through to him. Even Bhai-ing him or saying that I love him, he just says he loves me back but we have no future so I guess I get angry enough and get myself interested in something else in my life away from some of the things that attracted me to him. Thanks everybody for the help.
Ouch, women can be really cruel sometimes. Poor bloke is calling and texting you'll delete/block him. Lets stand up for our soon to be fallen brother. I salute thee brother.
Ouch, women can be really cruel sometimes. Poor bloke is calling and texting you'll delete/block him. Lets stand up for our soon to be fallen brother. I salute thee brother.
He's the bad boy that good men complain about, why are you feeling sorry for him.
He's the bad boy that good men complain about, why are you feeling sorry for him.
Hey still bloke has a heart. I mean he's calling/texting her, maybe he just needs to accept the love he feels for her and stop telling her silly things.
Its a very simple solution. Do not answer his calls, do not return his calls, and don’t respond to his text messages. You don’t need to block someone’s number to give them the message that you don’t want to communicate with them.