how do you behave after a lovers tiff

Lifestyle Relationships
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for eg say ur wife/husband and you have had a lil tiff/misunderstanding/fight even, or anything and you end up both sulking/being moody/silent treatment etc, what do you do after…as in your normal routine, is it disrupted?

SUCH AS if your the one who makes breakfast/dinner/iron shirts/anything or whatever, do you still get up and make it or do you refuse not do, because you think your right and he/shes wrong and until they dnt come to you, you wont budge.

how is the routine after a tiff?

Grit and bear it and remain the same, or sulk and be moody…or…?

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Re: how do you behave after a lovers tiff

hmmm

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mein kam kerti hoon jaisay nashta tayar kerna shirt istari kerna par ghusay mein.

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if u r living with sasural sab kerna padta chai chaho na chaho but agar ap apne husband k sath akelay rehtay hain toh ap kabhi kabhi kam kernay se inkar bhi ker saktay hain.

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it does not make any difference to me, tiff/fight/argument ya jo bhi ho

i everyday as compulsory get up and make breakfast for him, iron clothes, fix his wardrobe, polish his shoes, make food for him, look after the kids, do the laundry, do house chores, get grocery, aur bhi ghar ka kaam

i don't have an issue whether we argue/have tiff or not!!!

i fulfill my responsibilities.... her insaan upnay amaal ka khud zimadaar hai!!!!!!!

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???

KIDS are also his responsibility, polishing his shoes???? cant he do that himself...how is that ur responsibility..my dad polishes his own shoes unless hes in a hurry, same with my own husband ive never polished his shoes, he does it, i would if he was in a hurry for work, i havent as yet, he hasned asked. some men dont like women polishing their shoes, i think theres a saying about it, cant rem, il try to find out what it is...but in my fam ive seen some men NOT asking their wives to polishes their shoes, making food ironing isnt in the same category as polishing shoes.

i used to sulk, i wouldnt get up and make him breakfast, that was a one-ff i think, now i get up and do it, but haffki mein...:], NOT THAT im saying im right.

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it does not make any difference whether i polish my shoes or his shoes…

jootay jootay hotay haen, chahay baap kay houn upnay houn :wink:

well i look after the kids he does not…

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i live with my in laws & the hardest thing iv found is wen u have a fight with ur husband..because either everyone knows cos theyv heard, or they can tell uv been crying or they can sense the tense atmosphere between u n ur husband & if uv been in ur room for too long they know somethings not right..so i started acting 'normally' getting on with it & even talking to husband infront of everyone but then blanking him wen we were alone- oh its so hard!

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Re: how do you behave after a lovers tiff

i know, it must be really tough for u