how do u take care of ur conflicts/issues

by talking it out with one

by not talking abt it at all

what issue? i dont get conflicts with anyone.I am superduper awesome.

other - your way?

i personally dont talk

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I deal with them like an adult. I hate it when people become unresponsive and throw fits like a child.

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sorry :(

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^nah you don’t do that, you just cryy like a cryyybaby :chai:

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I use my bori wala connection.

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Well I do everything I can to avoid the conflict, if it begins though for whatever reason I try and use diplomacy and resort to negotiations.

If it escalates and/or insults are made and things appear to be heading towards physical nature... then I throw the rulebook out the window.

So much for self defence i know the law only says reasonable force and 90% of the time thats what I try to implement but if the conflict was serious the last thing I will do is show any weakness by appearing to back away... in fact I will let the other party go for it. And give them hell too.

First resort talk it out and if that dont work beat the conflict down...

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discussion and then an agreement always resolves a conflict.

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By taking out my angers on others.

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Seriously, why the hell does everyone think that being 'unresponsive' is 'throwing a fit'. If I am in conflict with someone and I know that it is a very very stupid matter, i CHOOSE NOT to talk about. It belittles me to talk about non-sense stuff. I also cannot keep a good face and talk sweet, so I distance myself for a bit, deal with the problem on my own, and then I am back to normal. I just need some time and space.

And if someone thinks that being 'silent' on a petty issue is 'being unresponsive' or 'dramatic', then so be it. But it takes a LOT more effort to remain silent during conflicts than to talk.

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It depends on person whom i have conflicts..... usually when i have conflicts with my friends... i just talk about it and sometimes fight with them as well :p

If its family member.. then depends on situation... sometimes i just let it go.. and sometimes i talk about it with them.........

I think discussions and arguments are necessary to resolve those conflicts.......

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If it is stupid argument then i just avoid argument all together. And in conflicting situation, i get quiet and then resolve later when things are bit calm. I hate yelling, shouting or even name calling or swearing. I find all that very immature.

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I run away :(.

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It depends who I have a conflict with....sometimes I just distance myself from the person who is creating the conflict. Other time I have confronted the person. However my experience is that u cant change ppl by confronting them , u can only change ur attitude towards them!!

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it's always my hubby who i end up talking to ..even if he wasn't remotely involved or part of the conflict :p

talking it out to someone you trust helps..keeping it inside doesn't..but one should know where to draw the line and not making 'talking it out' a downright abuse and ridicule program ...

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It's the third option for me most of the time.

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^arrogance.