how do u respond?

ive been getting a few “congratulations” from the few pakistani people i know in my community down here in melbourne.. generally the parents call and talk to mum about it.. and the youngesters (people my age) text me saying “congrats.. u really deserve it.. bla bla”.. so in response i reply “thanks heaps dude..”

my friend just informed me that someone who had received this message of mine thought i was really rude and hostile.. and that i make no effort of a friendship on my part…

i dont get it… what am i supposed to say.. or what did i say that was rude…

i mean, even if someone has congratulated me face to face.. i say “thanks” and am continuously blushing… do they expect me to break out into a long story of how and when i met mister.. or “im so lucky… hes the bestest.. bla bla..”

aagh

Re: how do u respond?

doosro ki khushi mein khush honay walay loag kam hotay hai. dont stress about it. unko unkay haal par chor do. they’ll always find something wrong in everything. u just relax n have fun and dont think about these idiots. :flower1:

Re: how do u respond?

yeah i know... i was just a bit peeved.

honestly, how much can u say in a text message? if she wanted a story, she could have called and congratulated.. and even that wouldnt have guaranteed a story. So tired of these retarded politics

Re: how do u respond?

It's ok...you didn't do anyhting wrong, that's how i would've have responded as well. Some people are just too hard to please

Re: how do u respond?

Sadzz, tell'em "get yo own man bitch"

Re: how do u respond?

thanks Shakuntula... i think its just that particular familiy. They are very hard to please..

aah Matsui, will try giving that a shot next time..