how do u forgive and forget??

[Nisha25]

Re: how do u forgive and forget??

@el_topo

Nisha, nothing is constant; not even pain. You are really the only one who can figure out the how. Personally, I wouldn’t focus on the forgiveness or the forgetting. I’d focus on getting over whatever it was that occurred; sh*t happens, move on. Time will take care of the forgetting, and the forgiving will become irrelevant once you are stronger in yourself.
Also, wax on wax off.

yea moving on is only possible if you aren’t around that person anymore but what if you had to see them everyday.
and in terms of the bold are you referring to what that guy did in karate kid or are you saying i’m due for a waxing i know stupid joke

@CM

Wow you lot a pretty depressing. Maybe spending some time in Darfur, Somalia or Chad will make you to realise what you have. Now on to subject matter. You will always get hurt and no man is an island unto himself. Meaning you have to contect to people. After all if you connect with them they hurt you but you also greater joy and happiness from that.

Its a balance. A simple truth I have learned in Darfur. Whatever you go through makes you stronger. Its your choice if it is to make you a better person.

I am gonna butcher this saying but its along of the lines of those who can hurt us the most can love us even more. Something to that affect.

yea being in life or death type of places like darfar can definitely make you think about enjoying every minute of your life and forget the troubles. but if family isn’t close by then what’s the use na. although the bold part is not true at all and i’ve never heard of this saying ever.

btw, where’s CM dost, hope he logs on again soon