Re: how do u come to accept that u lost all ur childhood and boyhood/ girlhood stuff?
i'm still living in my childhood house, but i got rif of most of my childhood stuff, because i did not need it any more.
i am not materialistic, i do prefer my memories of childhood to any objects from this time.
but it is hard to loose the people from childhood: grandparents and parents, and also old people from my neighborhood, who saw me grow and were freinds to me, but who are one by one dying....
deaths of dear ones, those who helped us become adults are the most difficult painffull losses of lost childhood!
the day when you look around and no one from your own childhood days is still alive, this day you feel really old.