Re: How do things change?
i dont have any personal experience in this matter but what i do know is that the outcome of one's relationship after having a baby is totally up to the couple. Naturally, when a baby is born the parents become very busy. Most of the time it's the mother that becomes too preoccupied with the baby which is completely understandable. However, with that said it is up to the wife/mother to involve her husband in the entire child rearing process so that he doesnt feel left out. It is up to the mother/wife (since she is the one with the child most of the time) to make time for her husband even if it means just spending 10 minz of quite time together while the baby is sleeping. Also if you have grandparents around..be sure to take advantage of it. Allow them to spend time with the baby as well while you guys get to sneak in some alone time.
good luck and congrats on the upcoming arrival of your baby.