Just feel soooo lost and alone… I thought I was stronger than this..and here I am completely overwhelmed and feeling so fragile at the moment and breaking down…
I am in a completely new city, around new ppl… they are great but I just feel sooo lonely and I miss my home, hubby and my city… where I knew things … where I had a car, I had hubby to decide things with…
I have another 3 months to go before the baby comes inshAllah … hubby and baby are scheduled to be around me at the same time… whenever I imagined having my first.. I never thought I would be doing it alone…
Hubby has exams a week before the due date and since this is our first I don’t even know if he will able to come and be with me at this time… I have to go out and buy essentials like stroller, car seat, bath tub, clothes and I don’t know what to do…
How did a strong woman get to this… I have been alone before and it was tough but I got through it … I didn’t have another being inside me who was getting affected by my tears or my laughter…
Allah has been so kind and I really really should be looking at the positive side of things… but I feel soo lonely .. I walk into stores, just stare at baby stuff and walk out empty handed not knowing if this is the right time or the right thing to buy…
Any of you been thru the same thing, or know of any friends who have gone thru it…how did they cope with it… any duaas or ayaats anything … I just want to get thru this emotionally tough time…
oh automne
My husband was not with me when i was expecting my first, i felt numb all the time and just wanted to cry, i was miserable and forgot to enjoy my pregnancy because i was too busy missing him.
Just blame the way you feel on the hormones,its natural to get these highs and lows during pregnancy, try to keep your chin up, think about the little cutie growing inside you keeping you company, those little kicks and movements probably make you smile, Inshallah these days will be a distant memory within a few months. You’ll get through it hun, Inshallah
thanks pyaare.. I need support and hugs right now... hurts that hubby is not around when I experience kicks and jabs... he is not around when I am looking at stuff we should be buying for our child... .... was ur hubby able to join you for the delivery...
sgc ... i am in the same country as you but in a much warmer place....any chance you wanna take a break... I would love to have a girlfriend who loves to shop and is an amazing shopper :)
Bless you , I am positive you are a strong lady … thsi time will pass too … dont let issues get to you … right now the most important thing is the baby .. just think of the good time ahead and dont focus on little issues of the moment
sgc ... i am in the same country as you but in a much warmer place....any chance you wanna take a break... I would love to have a girlfriend who loves to shop and is an amazing shopper :)
not in the great t-dot, then, i assume? :( awww, well we'll meet one of these days and i'll take you shopping!
