Re: How do other relations break off after a divorce?
It becomes even harder if the marriages have taken place between families and extended family. People seem to change when the 'd' word comes into the equation. Families become so divided and it is hard to do the right thing.
I would say hello and ask how they are. My nana abu used to say, even if someone does not on talking to you, avoiding you, go say salaam to them and how just because they treat you in a certain way does not mean you have to imitate them. They will be the one's who will feel ashamed and will open up.