how do i react to this?

hanibal · April 27, 2011, 11:29am

Re: how do i react to this?

OK Nadzz first thing don’t expect her to apologize to you even if she is wrong she will not say sorry to you and I believe she shouldn’t too. She did wrong and her son and her husband has already taken your side and she should really not be saying sorry. Not because she is your MIL but because she is your elder. Our parents too sometimes get angry on us without a valid reason do we ask them to say sorry ? It’s completely wrong and unethical to expect her to say sorry I mean the lady is an equal member of your house and not someone lower than you.

She did wrong when she got angry at you and your husband. BUT your husband dealt with the matter.

May be she is ill may be she is not ill give her the benefit of doubt. Leave the matter on Allah ! You don’t need to explain to your husband anything it’s between him and his mother. He also should ask you to apologize because in what you have written above you haven’t mentioned that u dd any badtameezi with her so why say sorry ? Give the matter some time she won’t be ill for the rest of her life.

Nadzz your inlaws are nice with you believe me they are very good with you. Learn to ignore their mistakes. Even when you are living with your own parents things are not 100%.

Finally some sense!!!