Re: How do I know if she likes me?
^Now, were you even remotely interested in any of those x number of hair-flipping, space-violating, touchy-feely…bordering on physically abusive girls that also suffer from a staring/sniffing problem along with a poor sense of humor and a possible Lolita-complex (if they’re calling you daddy)..?
Cuz if you weren’t interested in them, then there’s really no point to asking unless you’re looking for validation and an ego boost..both of which are really fun I admit…but it still wouldn’t come with 100% accuracy…unless the girl outright told you that she “liked” you. You can’t really determine if someone “likes” you unless they’ve spent a good amount of time getting to know your personality. At best…any of those above listed behaviors would only signal possible subconscious “attraction” toward you…especially if the person doesn’t know you that well.
My unsolicited advice: You seem young and there’s much heartache that comes with falling for someone that you know deep down in the recesses of your heart that you likely won’t have a future with…because either your family won’t approve of her or she’s from a different religion, or you won’t have enough courage or desire to stand up for it..etc …etc. So, it’s better to invest your emotional energies in someone when you actually are ready to get married and when you see that she has the values that would make a good life partner all within the limits/boundaries of deen so that neither of you will have any regrets later. Anything done with lesser intentions is just “time pass” and tends to come with unsavory consequences for either one or both persons.
Until then…happy deciphering, Sherlock.
All of these girls are very attractive, it’s just that I don’t like to talk much so I don’t understand women and I only want to pursue a girl if I’m 100% sure she likes me cause I don’t deal well with rejection. As for race or religion, all of these girls are from different backgrounds and to me it doesn’t matter much.
My question is for the ladies, what does it mean when you do any of the stuff I mentioned? Does it mean nothing?