I think you should be wary of your friend. It seems like she is purposely trying to make you nervous and lose your confidence. Who tells people not to make their eybrows, that their eyes are slant and that they should do something about their darkness?? Anyway, usually pics show lighter skin color, esp. if you tell the photographer. good luck.
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He came upto me himself :D
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Aww thank you all, well yeah she sometimes has well opinions whether they are islamic or cultural which I just find gross and I'm also showing her that at times, if you guys knew what sort of critic she can be on Shaadi outfits no person dared to get married anymore....
I'm just making Duaa it all works out insha'Allah, there'll surely come someone along, I mean my religious aspects should be valued aswell.
BTW does anyone know if that kunwari theory is right? Concerning eyebrows?
^ generally speaking, in Islam plucking eyebrows is not allowed, whether you're married or not. It's ok to remove hair everywhere else on the face, but not shaping eyebrows. You can remove a unibrow though, that is allowed I think.
Tayyebeh: not too sure about the eyebrows but I do get mine threaded, as the majority of girls do so I don't think it's that big a deal.
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I got mine threaded today at a Turkish hairdresser's! THE OUTCOME IS AMAZING o.O they also cut it and they are wonderfully shaped now just one is slightly thicker than the other, I guess I was given that typical oriental shape LOL if you know what I mean? It suits me and now my eyes DON'T look slant at all. Alhamdulillah.
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abhi tak to dekh hi nahi :p still single and looking ( karchief on my face )
well i havent done the tea trolley thing, but when you go in the room it's sooo nerve racking, everyones eyes are on u, i was shaking like anything my hands, knees. not a nice experiance....
Its horrifying when the father in-law keeps on staring at your cleavage or when the prospective groom is paying more attention to your hottie brother.
I've tagged the family file as toxic, just in case I encounter them again in the future.
My fate was sealed by my grandmother when I was 3 and my spouse barely a year old, I'll down load the pictures later.
My sister's rishta was arranged by her mother in-law before she was conceived "if your next child is a girl you will promise her to my son".
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hm…so ppl only get proposed once in their life? 
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Chavy:eek:
^DITTO!
Chavy, are you for real? What do you mean your fate is sealed? Is there no way for you to get out of this (especially if you don’t agree with it)??? Are your parents supporting you at all? You’re not marrying into that twisted family are you???
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theres nothin sad or loserish about meeting a prospective through your parents, and NO it doesnt mean you lack social skills