well i havent done the tea trolley thing, but when you go in the room it's sooo nerve racking, everyones eyes are on u, i was shaking like anything my hands, knees. not a nice experiance....
Its horrifying when the father in-law keeps on staring at your cleavage or when the prospective groom is paying more attention to your hottie brother.
I've tagged the family file as toxic, just in case I encounter them again in the future.
My fate was sealed by my grandmother when I was 3 and my spouse barely a year old, I'll down load the pictures later.
My sister's rishta was arranged by her mother in-law before she was conceived "if your next child is a girl you will promise her to my son".