PAH "Shareef" it makes me laugh out loud, how many of those boys have done besharam stuff and the girls are sometimes told "this is normal" for a guy to do, of course if they are really religious-minded they might see it differently, I've heard even boys themselves justifying it by saying "Mein larka hoon, is liye yeh teek hai" they believe because they are boys those rules of Pardah don't apply to them PFFT! Jaahil log.
In my opinion education of a girl is such an important thing especially nowadays, you never know what might befall you so therefore a degree is always good, Islam even tells us to educate ourselves. :) It's just so hard to find work here wearing a hijaab :(
As for the job :S is it materialistic to want a man who is more or less well-off so you won't have to live in a mini-flat :S?
NO it is not. In fact, as time is money and money is fabulous, I would advice you do not waste your time on poor men.