Re: How did your rishta come about?
Well I thought I had found one but it turned out disastrous...
So now I'm getting an arranged marriage insha'Allah and I'm supposed to send pictures and I have this one really cultural-minded friend who is constantly telling me "Don't shape your eyebrows for the pic it is not good for a kunwari", "Do something about your eyes they are slant you know that", "Be careful with your skin remember your complexion is dark" etc. I'M DEADLY SCARED to send a pic now! Who knows what they will do? I mean I hate the thought of having people examining my face and make comments on it, not only my face they requested a full-length shot of mine so they will say something about my figure too?
Aaaah afterall beauty is only vanity and it won't last forever so one should rather look at values no? Just as princess said one has to understand family or religious values, that is what keeps a marriage on longterm rather than looks...I don't understand that gori obsession anyways :S