how did you tell your husband you were pregnant?

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How did you first find out u were pregnant
Who did you tell first
How did you tell your husband

Im 29 just wondering I haven’t started trying yet and I use natural pregnancy prevention. For those of you within like 27-32 how long did it take you to get pregnant. I know its different for everyone, but just wondering.

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Too much questions lol, but Yeah, question about telling husband seems quite interesting and I am sure a lot of interesting answers are gonna come ahead… :blush:

Well. As like you, have been preventing it naturally. Thrice planned, got pregnant with in a couple of months… but unluckily it couldn’t go far along. The third time it survived and yay… I am here… month 5 is about to end alhamdulillah.

This time, when I planned, was never sure of getting pregger this instant. It was REALLY shocking and exciting and what not :blush:
He was in the office and I certainly didn’t want to tell him like that… I wanted to see his reactions :wub:

The next day he had planned for a Picnic so I knew he’s gonna ask me for his swim suit and all that kapray shapray shorts etc :blush:
What I did was, I kept my hpt clearblue stick in the right pocket of his shorts :cb:

I kept on waiting for so long to have him ask me about making his bag for picnic…after having meal and chit chat, when we headed to our room, he opened up the wardrobe and said, Mere kapray nikaal do kal k liye. (I knew it :hehe:)

I took out his clothes and told him about the shorts, he said, haan rastay main pehennay k liye theek hay… and then I acted checking it and its pockets, made a face said, whoa…whats in here??? And he was like? What? I said, don’t know… I kept on checking and he grabbed it from me… he first touched it from outside and laugh and said, Uffho, Probably a pen… and then he unzipped the pocket, & took out the Stick… well… I was quiet and he was …quiet for like 30 seconds… He just couldn’t believe :wub: and was like speechless… and All I could say was a “yes, that’s true” He said, ullu bana rahi ho, ye old wali hay…and I said, NO!! Its recent hon!! Probably the best moment of my life :blush:!!!

P.S. There is a worst part in this story too… :naraz: I wanted to record his reactions and for that I had already set up the camcorder… I took it up when he was in the wardrobe searching for clothes and acted like playing with it… and he was like…kiya kar rahi ho…and i was like…bhaeeeeeeee aap apna kaam karen…and he was like quite annoyed…me kapray dhoond raha hun aur tum usii me lagi ho and I was like ok… aati hun, and I kept the camera opened but this sharp cute man, he noticed and said, Camera bnd kerke aao!! It totally :pullhair: me… :cb: but ok…it was still the best moment :blush:

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In my first pregnancy I got pregnancy unexpectedly. Anyways after missing my period by three days I decided to test and it was positive. I was so scared, excited and just a huge mess that I ran to my husband, who was praying at that time, and started crying. I told him the test was positive , he said mubarak ho while still on the prayer mat and he wanted to see it so I had to take it out of the garbage. I cried till he went to work I have no idea why. I eventually felt better later on in the day as the shock wore off. Unfortunately I lost my son in that pregnancy.

For my current pregnancy, we both planned it so he knew I would test some time soon. I tested too early and it was negative and I told him maybe it’s not happening this month. Then I woke up on a Friday, decided to test one last time, and it was positive alhmd. My husband came back from Friday prayer and I was like “I have something to show you.” So I took out the test and gave it to him. He was really excited and quickly prayed 2 nafils :).

So to answer your first question. I had a feeling I was pregnant in my first pregnancy from before I missed my period because I started getting extremely tired and hungry.
For my second one I didn’t have any symptoms so I had to just keep testing.
Both times I told my husband first since it’s a special moment that you should share with your partner first.

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I was not planning on getting pregnant was on birth control got sick in Pakistan had to take antibodies that messed up my birth control … I had some cramp like feeling took two pregnancy test both negative went to dr to get myself checked..couldn’t believe when dr said I was pregnant I asked the dr two times if she is sure.i was excited, scared and in shock. Husband came home hugged him and told him he is going to be a daddy his reaction was priceless … But he was super happy went out that night to celebrate and now 8 month pregnant cant wait see our precious little angel :blush:

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Aw… thats indeed quite exciting. Stay blessed :blush:

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With my first it was the other way round lol, I went to the lab and gave sample for testing and slept 90% sure I wasn’t preggo. Next afternoon hubby picked the test and called me at work to tell me, “congratulations you are gonna be a mama”

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^lol :hehe:

how did you tell your husband you were pregnant?

I was trying for a while but it wasn’t happening. A week after ovulation I tested and it came out negative. So I waited until I was supposed to get my period. I tested that morning but I was feeling really negative about it and just kept thinking its going to be negative. I wouldn’t let myself look at it until the 5 minutes were up. I went and checked it. It was positive!! It was a Saturday morning and my husband had gone to play golf with some friends. I texted him and asked him when he was coming home. He answered asking me why? So I said I just wanted to know when he was coming. He answered do you need something? It was getting very frustrating because he wouldn’t give me and answer lol! Finally 2 hours later he came home. I was waitin for him in the bedroom and he was taking his sweet time coming to the bedroom. He first went and got water, then checked the thermostat, then opened the blinds, finally he came to the bedroom. He sat on the bed to take off his socks. So I sat beside him, smiled and handed him the test. He looked at it, then at me, then at the test, then at me, smiled in disbelieve and said ‘Is this what I think…’ And I said ‘yes! We are going to have a baby!’ And he gave me a big hug and told me he loved me. Then he wanted to go out and buy more tests to confirm. I still remember his smile! It melts my heart. Our baby is 4.5 months and he loves him like crazy. He is everything to us!

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so cute… :blush:

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We were fighting on some stupid stuff and I unconsciously said that your baby does not approve of it either lol he didn’t understood for first but when he realized he hugged me and forgotten all about the fight lol

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I took my test the day before my period - I did a strip test first and only the control line came up… BUT THEN I saw a VERY VERY VERYYYYY faint pink mark in the test region. I thought to myself noooo… it must be a mistake. But I went and got the digital test just to make sure. Funny story as I did the digital test we had a temporary power cut while I was in the toilet :cb: so I had to fiddle around in the dark and wasn’t sure if I was doing it right haha! I only found out when I came out of the bathroom and into the light, and I was SOOO happy.

It was New Year’s Eve when I found out - so I planned that I’d take my husband to see the massive fireworks display in London, and I planned that as the countdown would happen, I would say - I have some news… I’m pregnant! :wub: lol or something like that!

Unfortunately I felt unwell and phoned the doctor who recommended I go to emergency dept - so I HAD to tell hubby earlier. So I called him in and said ‘do you love me? do you want to spend the rest of ur life with me? do you want to start a family with me? he was like yes…what’s going on??? I got the test out and showed him… and I burst into tears lol :smack: I remember him looking at it with a MASSIVE smile, and then back at me, then at the test, and still smiling saying, really??? I said ‘we’re going to have a baby!’’ and I carried on crying lol and we hugged and the rest is just a blur I was too senti hahaa. I’ll always remember his smile it was like a mixture of disbelief and complete elation! :wub:

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1st baby - I took the test with him waiting outside the bathroom door :smiley: We were both so so so happy!! We even managed to record our reactions the moment we found out. Tripod zindabad

2nd baby - I took a pic of my positive test and texted him while he was at work :smiley: He started freaking out haha! We had been trying for over a year so we were super happy!

3rd baby - (we just found out we’re expecting baby #3) I got my 3 year old daughter involved and told her to tell her dad that “I’m getting a sibling”. She talks so funny so it was hilarious watching her explain it to my husband :smiley:

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All very clinical and business like…our babies were conceived in labs lol…my bfp’s came from phone calls from the RE’s nurse…no mushy gushy sweet or elaborate story telling here :smiley:

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After seeing no line…wait oh ****! there is a line. DAMN!!!

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I can so relate wth this, mine was almost same I was on pills n injection we knew when to test for pregnancy we checked together n huby started ringing everyone :samck2: and I was like wait let us check wth doc first but he already told everyone

I felt prego-ish…so i took a test like a day before i was expecting my period and saw i was prego. And my husbands birthday conincidentally was 3 days later. So i made his fav dinner and put candlea around the house and packed a huge box with a small box inside and wrapped it all up placed it in our bedroom with a card and candles. He thought i got him clothes/electronics and was annoyed whilst opening the boxes. Then he saw the smaller box and thought it was a watch and he got even MORE annoyed. When he opened it he was just shocked and stood there and was like ‘really?!’. Then we were so happy and ate his entire cake in celebration (he is a health nut).

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^ So what was in the box? :smiley:

Oh sorry…it was my positive pregnancy tests lol!

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all those who have been gifting preg. tests to the husbands - didnt you guys pee on that? :eek:

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^ I took a pic of mine and sent it to him. No gift wrapping :smiley: