Hey guys!!!
Life1 is so empty these days:teary1:
Anyway, I wanted to ask, how did you guys know that a person is the right one for you. Especially when it’s a rishta situation, maybe spoken a few times and met a few times. How did you know that this was the right person? 
This may seem silly but I was thinking that how do you know you shouldn’t wait see if there is someone better for you.
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I guess communication is the first step.
And no I’m not talking about a bare hello hi.
And once you get it going, my vote is to keep a tab on compatibility meter. That defines a lot.
Good luck.
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ager bandy ki pehchan karni ho to long trip par chaly jao… sab khul kar samny aajata hai… (traveling)
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^ how is that? please explain and elaborate
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Just follow your gut feeling body language look at how the relatives are what sort of question they ask
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Just follow your heart. Sometimes you just have to go with gut feelings after getting to know em.
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Thanks everyone!!! Yeah I guess it’s alway a fear of mine that I’d select someone that I shouldn’t have.
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hahahah
True, they say unless you live with someone you don’t really know them yet.
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Get to know him and his family, do your background investigation. Do istikhara…better to do it before getting emotionally attached. And continue doing istikhara until you get a clear answer (based on events). If there is mutual attraction and compatibility, then go forth with the rishta. You will find out if it’s “good” for you based on how the events unfold. If it’s good for you…then when you put forth some effort…it will culminate in marriage. If it’s not good for you, despite all your efforts, it will not result in marriage. So, you pay attention to events, not dreams or signs. People will vary in their experiences and views about this question; you won’t get a solid black or white hard-fast rule type of answer. So, consult the One who made you and controls all your affairs to guide you to what is best for you. Best wishes.
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Thanks Red Velvet.