Hey you all,
So alot of you guys are engaged/married/about to get married/in serious relationships. How did you know or realize that he/she was THE ONE? Was it sudden or a feeling that developed over a period of time? Do share
I’ll start first- 5 years ago when I first talked to this guy (now my fiance- we have been together since senior year in high school) I knew that not specifically him but if I ever was going to be in a relationship, it would be a guy JUST like him. Even though he was talkative, cheerful and funny, it was his simplicity and happy nature that blew me away. He seemed like one of those genuinely nice people and even after 5 years, he’s still the same. He’s ALWAYS happy and positive (which really gets on my nerves sometimes), I have never heard him backbiting against anyone in our entire relationship, religious, cultured and way too respectful towards every single human being.
So yeah, I guess he’s the one I feel blessed.
Well........when hubby and his family came with a rishta to "see me" I just clicked as soon as we started talking.......we sat down to talk at around 9pm and we were still talking at nearly 1am! I just wanted to talk to him and listen to him forever and ever................and he says he felt the same about me...............
Before hubby, there were 3 rishta's 2 of those came to see me themselves (with parents) and one of them - his parents came round. With each of them, there was something different, but in each case there just wasn't the immediate "click".if you know what I mean..............?
One of them the way he was talking made it out like he was recruiting a nurse/carer for his mum...................
The other you could tell had a list of questions that his dad had told him to ask................
In both cases I shyed away from doing a good "selling" job...instread making out that I was so career orientated that I wouldn't have time for a hubby let alone his family!
I did get 2 rishta's that said yes, but we said no.
Hubby still talks about that night when we first talked and says it's the best decision he ever made......(Of course I agree!)
Well, my dad came into the room and asked me if I’m ok with him and given that i wudn’t be able to come out til i said yes… i said yes..3 times :pagli:
hubs and i used to work together- he was my boss’ boss (eep!). we really clicked as friends first, and spent lots of time together hanging out and getting to know each other. i think because we were friends first, we kind of got to know each other’s good and bad sides and families and friends just through chatting and hanging out. in the end, when we finally did decide to take things to the next level and start dating, it felt like the most natural thing in the world. we both kind of knew we were The One for each other… and i think thats the only reason why we went through everything that we did together and didn’t run away screaming at the first sign of tension
he’s a super positive and very ambitious guy and from the start, those were two things that really drew me to him. on his end, he says he hired me because i was pretty lol but seriously speaking, we sort of compliment each other MA- he indulges my whims, and i support his every crazy ambition… i truly feel like when i’m with him, i can do anything and do it really well–he’s just a very inspiring person. i love that!
its a matter of perspective... being friends and being in a relationship with someone are two different things. you'll learn that when you find The One yourself. :)
in other words, do you have any friends that girls and have you ever had a girlfriend?
oh u guys are so blessed dat u found the one!
there are 2 guys in my life rite now n both want to marry me...but i dont know who is the one for me. is it one of the 2 guys or a 3rd person...is there anyway i can find out?
When he came to my house for the first time to see me with his family I knew I would be his bachoN ki amma :-P Lurvee at first sight, aaaaaah soooo cheesy!! LOL
but seriously speaking, we sort of compliment each other MA- he indulges my whims, and i support his every crazy ambition… i truly feel like when i’m with him, i can do anything and do it really well–he’s just a very inspiring person. i love that! 