How did you guys feel the way I do? How did you move on?

newbee13 · July 7, 2015, 5:33pm

Re: How did you guys feel the way I do? How did you move on?

Will you be living with your in laws?
If you have a great relationship with your parents then it’s not the same living with in laws, no matter how nice they are. I’m not saying it’s depressing, it’s just not the same as being with your parents because obviously no one can replace your parents.
How far away are your parents going to be? You don’t need permission to visit your parents. From the beginning of the marriage, just tell your husband that you will be visiting your parents on such and such date. You can be considerate of events or appointments on that date and change your plans. But you don’t need anyone’s PERMISSION to visit your own parents, you’re a grown woman. Behave like a grown woman from the beginning and they will hopefully treat you like one. Respect them and expect to be respected.

I didn’t have too much depression before the wedding. I was a little sad about leaving and moving far away from my parents. But at the same time, it was a love marriage and I was going to be living with only my husband in a new apartment and I was excited about that.

I will be living with my father in law only. The rest lives abroad due to nationality. I guess you may be the only person understanding but I’m afraid they’ll ask me why I’m going and I shouldn’t as this is my house now.. We r the new parents.