How did you guys feel the way I do? How did you move on?

[newbee13]

Re: How did you guys feel the way I do? How did you move on?

@Hassan007

Sorry for being blunt but i think you need to grow up. Your parents are your parents, being with them your who life in sense of comfort will never change. But as time goes by, you need to adjust with new people. It is part of being growing up. My parents didn’t even like my wife when i got married. But she gave them respect. Often at her own expense. She cried to me when my mom was mean to her. But she never disrespected them. And now, she is their favourite DIL. And my parents think that i have made best decision to marry her. So be patient and there will be time you will be frustrated. Don’t let this get to you. Every family have issues. 1st 2 years of marriage is basically difficult. So stay put.

I understand that it’s the start years that are tough.. Sure I’ve heard my mom’s stories and everyone’s of how they were mistreated and denied basic right. But I don’t believe in someone treating me badly.i think I deserve the same level of rights and respect as my husband does. Esp when my husband happily gives them to me.. And then my in laws interfere?

I give his parents alot of respect I’ve never been rude to them (jethani has been very rude) I’ve cried to my husband alot of times but never showed it to them.. But In future I won’t tolerate them telling me I can’t meet my parents. Or my friends. When their son can go anywhere I can do. If they have an issue start imposing it on their son. Not baho.