How did you guys feel the way I do? How did you move on?

[Reha]

Re: How did you guys feel the way I do? How did you move on?

@newbee13

Disclaimer I’m having a love marriage.

I’m getting married in almost six months.. And it’s been months I’ve been sad about it. I feel so so attached to my family and love my lifestyle. I don’t want it to be changed. I’m not sure if the new house will be as comfortable as this since there’s no place like your parents home right?

So how did you all move on from this depression? Not being there when your dad got home every night? Not being there for your parents.. I’d want to be here for them cause they are old..

Does this get better post marriage? How do I cope with it? My friends were super happy before getting married.. My in laws are good people esp my husband. My father in law has controlling issues and my mother in law is a bit biased but she’s very good otherwise. Never taunted at me or said anything bad to me.. But it’s not my home. It’s not my family. Why can’t I live here forever…
I keep thinking..would I have to take permission to meet my parents?should I?

In the beginning you feel completely displaced…like someone picked you up and put you somewhere you don’t belong.

And for a while it seems like NOWHERE aside from your mom and dad’s home could possibly feel like home.

Then…after a few months you make your place in your new home. Your bathroom, your room, your belongings have a new place and you start to get comfortable.

It doesn’t feel like this will ever happen though when you leave your parents’ house. But it does and one day all of a sudden you start to miss your home and not your parents’. That day you’ve come full circle and basically are doing what your mom is doing.

Keep in mind though that the only way this will happen is if you keep an open mind and allow things to take their course naturally.